3. The embarrassment isn’t going to kill you. You might be embarrassed about getting divorced or losing your dream job or moving out of your beautiful home — but shitty things happen. There might be people who judge you or pity you over your ‘setbacks’, but frankly, those people aren’t worth your time. Once you spot them, you can begin to weed them out of your life. You can keep the good people around instead, the people who love and support you no matter how successful you look from afar.